Many girls email me looking for support groups and avenues to meet
other girls. Yahoo groups are an easy place to see what is going on in an
area (whether geographically or your particular fashion).
Here are some groups I have found to be very good, however, their
"tastes" may not be your due to frankness or adult nature of the group. I
am not endorsing these groups but I am members of them. There are
active links to there groups.