Many girls email me looking for support groups and avenues to meet
other girls.  Yahoo groups are an easy place to see what is going on in an
area (whether geographically or your particular fashion).  

Here are some groups I have found to be very good, however, their
"tastes" may not be your due to frankness or adult nature of the group.  I
am not endorsing these groups but I am members of them.   There are
active links to there groups.
Friends of the Randolph Country Club - Mass
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FoRCC/

Women's Executive Group - CD Professionals  
groups.msn.com/ExecutiveWomensBusinessClub

Lake Erie Gala Sisters - And don't forget the Erie Gala in November
groups.msn.com/lakeeriegala

NJ Cross Dressers and Admirers
groups.yahoo.com/group/nj_crossdressers_and_friends

Girl Talk Magazine - Great site and magazine also
groups.yahoo.com/group/Girl_Talk_Online

Glamourgurtz - Created by the outrageous (good) Misch Mink
//groups.yahoo.com/group/Glamourtgurtz

Ina's Silver Swan - The place everyone goes in NYC, if you are looking for
admirers
groups.yahoo.com/group/inassilverswan

Brianna Austin - For Club Report, great advice.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/brieannaaustin